I haven't forgotten about you! After looking at your pics, it looks like your hair is more on the low density, fine strands. You might just have a lot of fine strands. Let me know if I'm wrong.

One thing to remember about the Hydrate & Renew is that it's lightweight. I feel like we get so used to using heavy conditioners that coat our strands (not always a good way) that we think that is what our hair should feel like. The reason why I recommend H&R for low porosity hair is that it isn't heavy so that when you are ready to apply your leave-ins and stylers, your hair will absorb it better vs using a heavier rinse-out conditioner.

How does your hair feel after you've finished your wash day and it's dry?

Exactly which product are you using - The Hydrate & Renew or the Restoring Hair Treatment? Also, what shampoo are you using?